These are tips for Etiquette while visiting a Tepee or Lodge...
* If the door is open, a friend may enter the tepi directly. Butif it is closed, he should announce his presence and wait for the owner to invite him to come in.
*A male enters to the right and waits for the host to invite him to sit to the let of the owner at the rear. Be hospitable.
*Always assume your quest is tired, cold and hungry.
* Always give your guest the place of honor in the lodge and at the feast, and serve him in resonable ways.
* Invited guests are expected to bring their own bowls and spoons.
*Never sit while your guests stand.
*Women never sit crossed-legged like men. They can sit on their heels or with their legs to one side.
*If your guests refuses certain foods, say nothing. He may be under vow.
*Protect your guests as one of the family.
*Do not trouble your guests with many questions about himself. He will tell you what he wants you to know.
*In another man's lodge follow his customs....not your own.
*Never worry your host with your troubles.
*Always repay calls of courtesy. Do not delay.
*Give your host a little present upon leaving. Little presents are little courtesies and do not offend.
*Say "thank you" for every gift....however small.
*Compliment, even if you strain the facts to do so.
* Never walk between persons talking.
*Never interrupt persons talking.
*Always give place to your seniors in entering, or leaving the lodge or anywhere.
*Never sit, while your seniors stand.
*Never force your comversation on anyone.
*Speak softly, especially before your elders, or in the presence of strangers.
*Never come between anyone and the fire.
*Do not stare at strangers. Drop your eyes if they stare hard at you: above all for women.
*The women of the lodge are the keepers of the fire, but men should help with the heavier sticks.
*Be kind.
* Show respect to all men and women, but grovel to none.
*Let silence be your motto, until duty bids you to speak.
*Thank the Great Spirit for every meal.
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